只有在树叶掉光的冬日， 　　　　

才可以躺在柔柔软软的落叶上， 　　　　

才可以看到一整片的蓝天和白云， 　　　　

才可以有一个没有知了、

小虫吵闹的下午。 　　　　

晒晒太阳，做一个白日梦

2day so fresh....went jogging with Nat and YY....That two crazy women run so many rounds make me feel a bit paisei.Nat was pushing herself to run 6 rounds,Wow...nvr give up. Mustz learn from her!(* v *) and datYY was running like crazy..Hmmmm.......may be next time i should run 6 rounds and run 2gether with them. after jogging, i was 汗ing like non stop.... the whole t-shirt was full of my 男人味。今天的天气超好，跑完步闭上眼睛躺在地上的感觉就好你拥有了全世界无忧无虑的好轻松哦....当时觉得时间过的好慢好慢，嗨~~~时间再慢还不是要从你身边溜走。Tep going to end soon and today is the start of my blk leave.有点不舍得

this afternoon i nvr had a proper lunch...but i ate a lot 美食. went amk with yy just to buy sushi and the ice cream....i shared my food with YY,Desiree, Nat and Charky. （感动自己才是幸福 ,分享就是快乐）hahaha....feed them more make them look 肉肉的。especially that desiree coz she called me pearl and want to make me to be golds' personal maid.

2molo going cycling again....

Thursday, March 30, 2006

Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Tuesday, March 28, 2006

-有关"电车男"的一切
《电车男》改编自一个真实的故事。"电车男"是前年在网络上备受瞩目的一个男生，发生在他身上的爱情故事感动了近百万人，甚至被誉为"本世纪最美好的爱情"。前年10月，原原本本的集中了论坛上的对白，小说《电车男》面世并受到了广泛好评。去年，电车男的故事先后5次被改编成漫画出版，同样受到了读者的欢迎。于今年3月上演的朗读剧《电车男》更是座无虚席。去年6月4日，电影《电车男》终于上映了。电车男的走红几乎到达了顶峰。7月7日开始，电视剧《电车男》首播，8月5日至8月27日，舞台剧《电车男》上演。人们被有关"电车男"的一切吸引着

-青涩初恋和网络情谊

"电车男"(山田孝之)这个怪名是网友起的。2频道是"电车男"常去的一个论坛，频道里有个独身男性专区，被戏称为"毒男区"(所谓毒男：年龄=没有女朋友的历史)。"电车男"今年22岁，是个系统工程师，从没谈过恋爱，与家人住在一起。他穿着打扮很老土，反应总是慢半拍，是个彻头彻尾的卡通模型发烧友。乘电车到"秋叶原电子产品一条街"然后不厌其烦的盯视各种卡通模型是他最大的乐趣，也是他业余生活的全部("秋叶原"集中了很多这样的年轻人，男性为主，大家称他们为"秋叶原系")。

　一日，电车男照例在秋叶原花掉大把时间，然后乘电车回家。车上，有个女孩(中谷美纪)受到了醉酒中年男人的骚扰。青年不假思索的替女孩解了围。回想起那一刻，电车男被女孩的美貌打动了，他觉得她长得像女明星中古美纪。

不久后，女孩寄来了一套爱马仕的茶杯作为答谢。该不该借此机会约爱马仕小姐(不知道女孩的真实姓名，电车男只好给她起了个高贵的绰号)一起吃饭呢？对爱马仕小姐的感情不可控制的蔓延开来。

苦恼的电车男在第2频道发了帖子，原原本本的写下了自己初恋的感觉和内心的困惑，希望得到网友们的帮助。平日在2频道嬉笑谩骂、没有正经的一班网友看到电车男的帖子，最终还是被电车男的纯情打动，没有人开他的玩笑，反而很多人真心的给予他各种建议。于是，电车男在2频道有了一个支持他的亲友团。护士小姐从女性的角度给了电车男很多建议；在公司任职的中年男人描述了自己的亲身经历供电车男参考；家庭主妇讲出了内心的渴望和对生活的要求；和电车男属于一型的"秋叶原系"3人组如同对待自己的梦想一般认真的思考电车男的恋情；长期蜗居在家的情感淡漠的少年虽然时不时给电车男泼冷水，但实际上却是在替电车男的执着担心。

接受了各种各样的建议和鼓励后，电车男终于鼓起勇气，找到了爱马仕小姐 。一起吃个饭吧，拜托了"。

-一个真实的故事

根据论坛里的零零星星、支离破碎的对白，写出故事并搬上银幕，这在日本尚无前例。由于这个特殊的来头，故事有着绝佳的真实感和存在感。影片里的电车男身着葱绿色短款夹克、腰别着手机、脸上架黑框眼镜、面对卡通模型以外的东西时反应略显迟钝、见到女生即刻面红耳赤，不知所措。对于"电车男"这样典型的"秋叶原系"男生而言，爱玛仕小姐简直宛若仙女下凡一般。最后，几乎生活在不同世界里的两个人走到了一起。这个童话般的爱情故事并不是臆想出来的，它就发生在去年，就发生在人们的身边。这种真实感是最能打动人心的。

-隐藏于虚拟空间的真情

　　电车男背后的网络亲友团是影片的一大看点。被男友甩掉的护士、蜗居在家的青年、整天疲于奔命的公司白领、倦怠期的家庭主妇、性格古板、缺乏异性缘的"秋叶原系"3人组。随着故事的发展，这些人和电车男的友情日益深厚。他们时而绞尽脑汁、不遗余力的为电车男出谋划策，时而又为电车男的迟钝窝囊大动肝火。那些关怀和担心闪动在荧光屏上，不禁让人心生温暖。其实，在生活中同样郁郁寡欢的他们对电车男的支持又何尝不是对自己的鼓励。我们都愿意相信，生活中还有像电车男这样纯情的男子，而这样的男子必定能最终赢得女孩的芳心。对电车男给予信任和支持的同时，我们更加确定了自己的信念。电车男赠与所有恋爱中的人以及希望恋爱的人一种"喜欢一个人的纯粹的心情"和"表达那种心情的勇气"。

今天跟往常一样又迟到了！不过今天有人帮我sign in！最开心的是老板娘在家上班!EMRS is just like a 天堂inG 减肥减肥我要减肥...这可不是开玩笑的哦 I ran 4 rounds abt 1.6km再接再厉，加油！你一定行的！3年没运动了没想到自己还可以跑4圈 :-) 前一阵子我还连一个sit up都做不了（笨死了），还好发现的早要不然后果不堪设想。跑玩步觉得整个人精神多了！明天continue努力....再见了我的肥肉

1. So happy ah soh nvr come today
2. so happy that i went shopping today
3. so happy that i bought one pair of jeans today
4. So happy that i bought 1 vodoo doll key chain(it means 肝胆相照）
5. So happy that i drank so many water today
6. so happy that i excercise today
7. so happy i 汗inG today
8. So happy that i ate delicious food today
9. So happy that i am so happy today

My lucky charm is a Four-leaf Clover!

Even if you're not from the green isles, you just might share in some of that luck o' the Irish. The four-leaf clover is your lucky charm. Druids used four leaf clovers to see evil spirits and friendly fairies. If you start seeing magical things however, we recommend laying off the clovers for a while. In fact, you don't even need to possess the actual clover. A necklace, pendant, key chain or tattoo promises the same good fortune of the ancients. Take note brides and grooms—the mere dream of a four-leaf clover foretells of a successful marriage. Actually finding one might mean quadruplets.

Monday, March 27, 2006

2day is a boring yet somehow 时间好象不知不觉的过去ing了。i was late for school again and this is not the first time and definately wun be the last time. actually i was late becoz of the 老板was in the bpos room.....Why she was there..... flaxi left 3.5 hrs plus 1hr xtra.... sure ganna deducted one. fortunatelly blk leave wun be affected if affected must ask 阿嫂go check her eyes and teach her caculation.
this afternoon went amk with nat and irene. they makan and i went to buy DVDs. first time during TEP makan very the little....On diet! (8_8)
went back to school at around 2pm plus, borrowed laptop from steven to watch the DVDs but cant watch coz his media player dun have the code dec....sianz.....:\ went to MRC oso cant watch...双重打击 haiz~~~~~~went to library to watch movie。 1st borrowed TROy but it is the making of troy, another 打击！no choice but to watch A.I, it is an old show lah...quite nice lah.将就一下。 during the show my 老爹called me..asked me to go to the knew home and take a look. Cheated by him.he ask me to help him to carry the 木板from 1st story up to the 7th story....damn tire....还好早就习惯被他骗要不然肯定会X#@!$^&^&%$#%几句。。。今天吃的都不够用！早知道陪nat and irene go orchard walk walk...haiz~~~~可怜的我还有可恶的老爹！(*^*)

Sunday, March 26, 2006

just came back from cycling. long time nvr 运动liao feel so fresh after so much 汗ing。感觉整个人好像瘦了下来。。。。hahaha....( * v* ) 人家都说女人是水做的而我却觉得男人也是水做的！why? During the cycling i drank 1 bottle of 100plus and 1 cup of coke, be4 that i drank 1 bottle of Oolong tea.记得一年以前我刚做完盲肠手术其它病人打点滴可以不吃不喝而我呢肚子虽然不饿可口却渴了,哈哈哈。。。
my friend wenhui and i cycled to the pierce resoviour... he told me that on the way we will be able to see CheeYong( refering to Monkey),but we are unable to C any ! May be they are on holiday coz 2day is sunday mah...
We cycled to every part of the bishan park! Guess wat we saWwW.....我们看到传说中的幽会男女(外劳and the maid)我们一共看到3对在bishan park幽会！好个矿男怨女....
i汗ing a lot and i smell like a piece of 臭豆腐。 i cant even stand that smell of myself....: /
we stopped cycling at abt 4.30pm and that costed me abt $12. we walk to the MRT station.... walking exercise again...coz i lazy to take the bus and wenhui got his own bike cant take bus...汗ing again.... ( +.+)
I toke the Mrt home alone I thought that other passenger will keep a distance from me but non of them did.....Sianz :/ may be their nose 坏了...LOLx

Weird Guy Behavior Explained
By Dan Bova for Redbook

Men: We're big fans, truly we are. But every once in a while, we could use a little help understanding some of the bizarre things they think, say and do. Here, our intrepid guy reporter answers your burning questions about 14 of Why won't he stop and ask for directions?

You've all been there. "There" being nowhere near where you are supposed to be because the Magellan wannabe behind the steering wheel would rather drive around in circles, cursing at street signs for hours, than pull into a gas station and ask for help. But his resistance isn't merely macho - it comes from a primal, evolutionary place, explains Allan Pease, coauthor of Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps. "Men had to rely on spatial skills to survive - they needed to know where to throw the spear to hit the zebra running at high speeds. They also needed to remember how to get back home with the meat. So to have to stop and ask for directions is to admit you've failed at your number one evolutionary task!"

In other words, our big, fat egos are at stake -- even if the task at hand isn't exactly life-and-death. "If Columbus could find America, I feel like I should be able to find my niece's third-birthday party," says Rich, 35, a geologist from Miller Place, NY.

Why is he obsessed with the Discovery Channel?
Flip to the Discovery Channel at any given moment and you'll see people blowing things up, animals eating each other or men with ridiculous mustaches riding around on motorcycles. It's everything we wish we were doing instead of working from 9 to 5 every day (besides the getting-eaten-by-a-wild-jackal part).

Why does he love quickies so much?
It's simple mathematics. Dudes experience spontaneous sexual hunger about twice as often as women, according to a study conducted at Oxford University. Add to that the fact that 30 percent of men experience premature ejaculation at some point in our lives, and you've got an equation for a quickie. Nick, 31, an actor from Braintree, MA, has a somewhat less scientific explanation for the male proclivity for fast-and-furious love: "More pleasure, less effort," he says. "It's like my favorite beer - tastes great, less filling

Why can't he be bothered to wrap a present?
So we think the store bag counts as wrapping paper. It's not because we're uncaring jackasses. As evidenced by many a single guy's apartment, where a $2,000 TV set can coexist happily with a coffee table fashioned from a cardboard box, attention to detail often eludes us. We see the big picture -- i.e., the gift -- but little finishing details like bows and ribbons seem superfluous and inconsequential.

And believe it or not, there is actually a lot of loving thought that goes into the lack of shiny paper and Scotch tape. "When I've bought my girlfriend something expensive from a fancy store, I want her to know that it's the real deal and not some knockoff I bought on the street," says Jimmy, 32, from Bowling Green, OH. "Giving it to her in the store bag proves it." And, really, isn't a pretty blue Tiffany shopping bag nicer to look at than something wrapped in three-year-old Christmas paper and duct tape?

Why can't he throw out those junky T-shirts from college?
No, we don't think armpit-stained Guns N' Roses concert tees are the must-have item this fall. Two impulses make us hold onto those old shirts until they fall off our bodies: One is -- yes -- sentimentality. "This is where men and women are alike," says Nick. "This is the X in our XY chromosomes. Whenever I put certain old shirts on, I can't help but remember a game of touch football or the first hike I went on with my fiance while I was wearing that shirt." The other reason we can't part with our tees is that guys are, well, kinda lazy. Throwing something out requires effort -- and replacing it requires one of the most dreaded activities in a man's life: going to the mall. If it's comfortable and covers our torso to a reasonable degree, both our hearts and our shopping phobia will have us holding onto it for dear life.

Why does he call his friends by rude nicknames?
Your husband is on the phone with one of his buddies and just referred to him by a funny but foul name. Are they in the middle of a fight? Just the opposite, says Austin, 31, from New Orleans: "Only someone who loved us would say something that harsh to our face." Allan Pease explains, "Giving friends nicknames shows an emotional connection, but the filthy humor prevents it from being too emotional, which makes men uncomfortable."

Why does he suck at chitchatting on the phone?
It's all about hormones, says relationship expert John Gray, Ph.D., author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. "Oxytocin, a hormone that reduces stress in women, is stimulated through communicating and collaborating. For men, testosterone reduces stress - and it's stimulated through solving problems and competition. Chitchatting is basically the opposite of accomplishing anything. It can actually lower a guy's testosterone levels, and he'll start feeling uncomfortable and bored

Why must he repack the car when you fit everything in fine?
Whether you are loading Costco loot for the short ride home or shoving suitcases in the trunk for a cross-country trek, there is one thing you can be sure of: Whichever way you cram everything in will be "all wrong." Why do guys insist that they're expert packers? "Well, typically a man is better at packing the car," laughs Gray. (Yeah, we men stick together like that.) "Most research reveals that men have a much more developed sense of spatial perception, which is what makes a person good at arranging things." And don't be fooled by those moans and complaints he makes about having to redo your alleged packing disaster. "We love the challenge," admits Nels, 34, a writer from Savannah. "It's like a life-size game of Tetris."

Why does he always think it is 20 degrees hotter than it really is?
Some experts say men have a higher internal temperature. Others say that more body hair = warmer bodies. Whatever the reason, all guys agree: If you need to pile seven blankets on the bed every time the temperature dips below 68 degrees, keep them on your side of the bed!

Why does he have a garage filled with power tools he never uses?
Guys are born to love gizmos - literally. In a study of newborns who were given the choice of looking at a human face or a mobile, the majority of boy babies were more interested in looking at the whirling, twirling thingy than the adoring person making goo-goo faces. (Baby girls, conversely, preferred human interaction. Weirdos.) In addition to this apparently instinctive love of things that spin and buzz at the push of a button, many guys experience a kind of nostalgia when perusing the Black and Decker aisle at Sears. "It's often his attempt to live the fantasy of being the Man of the House," says Pat Love, Ed.D., author of The Truth About Love. We grew up seeing our dads and grandpas running around with hammers and monkey wrenches fixing (or making worse) whatever ailed the house. We want to be just like them, not some 21st-century wienie who's afraid to chip a nail. Having the tools on hand at least gives us the illusion of competence.

Why doesn't he want to talk about his day when he gets home?
"I just want to leave all the annoying crap of the day behind me and think about nothing for a while," says Jim, 31, a father of two from Beacon, NY. At the end of the day, men are tired of thinking, and, more important, we're tired of talking. "Studies show that women use 8,000 to 9,000 words a day. Men use 2,000 to 4,000 words a day on average," explains communication expert Allan Pease. "By the time they come home from work, they've used up their words. And women have 5,000 left to go."

Why can he remember the score of a baseball game played 10 years ago, but forgets his own mother's birthday?
Sixty percent of men forget birthdays and anniversaries, compared with only 16 percent of women, according to one British survey. Are all guys idiots? (Don't answer that!) "Birthdays and anniversaries are linked to emotional events, which brain-imaging studies show that the male mind doesn't respond to as much as the female mind does," says Pease. On the other hand, as we've already seen, testosterone is what really soothes the male soul, and watching or competing in sports is one of the primary things that gets it pumping. "You hold onto those scores and memories because they make you feel good," John Gray notes.

Why does he get jealous about a boyfriend from seventh grade?
Bringing up an old flame, no matter how innocently, is a sure way to ignite the fires of jealousy in your guy's heart. Men, you may have noticed, can be incredibly competitive, and as Pat Love notes, "Talking about an old boyfriend makes him feel powerless. He's thinking, 'How can I compete with a memory?'" He can attempt to outwit - or, in the worst-case scenario, punch out - some guy he thinks is flirting with you at a bar, but there is nothing he can do about little Johnny Smith, who held hands with you on that field trip to the natural history museum. Man, we hate that guy.

What's up with all the lesbian fantasies?
"Two words: No penises," says Jimmy. Truth is, in the pantheon of ridiculous sex fantasies floating around the male mind, one scenario reigns over all others: stumbling upon two women going at it hot and heavy, and being asked to join in the fun. And watching two porn actresses experience orgasm after orgasm with each other (they wouldn't fake it, right?) is the closest 99.9 percent of men not named Hugh Hefner or Dirk Diggler will ever get to living that fantasy

Saturday, March 25, 2006

this is not my first time going home but it is the first time that my home have two STRANGERs. 我有种莫名其妙的感觉。a naked man walking in orchard road. Hmmmm......may be that is the 感觉吧。家里多了两个人还真的不习惯。
嗨~~~~希望时间就向我上厕所那样噗噗几下就过了....
when i reached home, the first thing i did was to open the door of that huge dust bin. Wow... i was amazed.... so many "rubishz" on the floor. I opened my brother's room. his room oso the same lah...bo ka ho( no much better) I looked at the living room, so clean so tidy, 一句话si bie sui !but there are some boxzs that no belong to me. another huge and nice dust bin with huge doors. The two strangers stay in their room, never make any noise nvr come out. i wonder wat can a man and a woman do inside a room. so quiet mei...(the room is not sound prove)

今天一大早就起来了，平时我大概要睡到11am的。很奇怪吧！：) The reaso why i wake up so early is because i have to pack all the stuffs that belong to family and move them to my room. Tiring Saturday! Actually i quite enjoying lah...guess what i had found ? i found a wallet...Oh dear...that is my primary school wallet(Little Bobdog).那个钱包大概也跟我搬了几次家吧。。。哈哈哈。。。竟然没人发现它的存在！should i throw it away?(to be or not to be dats e Question)一切就听天由命吧
among all the stuff the heaviest and the biggest is that保险箱。i cant belief that i carry it to my room...listen carefully I CARRY IT :P很不可思议 哈哈哈....!!!!( *.* )
今天新的屋主将搬进来跟我们住。这新屋主是对年轻的中国夫妻，我只见过他们一面。对他们的印象也不是特别的深。只知道他们提前近来住给了不少potential问题。

1. i have hard time to keep/store all my collection of comics in boxs
2. My bed room looks like a huge dust bin with a door
3. if u smoke inside the house i will make u shit from the mouth
4. 希望你们会做人扫地抹地的事要常做。
5. 别跟我抢电视没有它我睡不了
6. 不要以为我闭上眼睛就可以关电视，眼睛是会开的哦 dun play play
7. dun bring too many of ur friends home, i want peace, i want my tv

我会continue sleeping in my bed room(living room). dun complain coz u make my bed room look like a huge dust bin with a door.

Friday, March 24, 2006

why i am doing this?(Blogging lah) I am really dun know why i blogz....may be 吃饱没事做吧~~~hai~~~ so sianz...hmmm...this should be the reason why i start this BLOGZZZZ....

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